I am so sorry to hear about Pogo. I’m certain that he knew he was loved for all 10 years. I’m heartened to read that what I wrote was helpful in any way. I’m glad you have the 5-year-old whom I’m sure is keeping you busy (which is good). I know that you and your family will be able to continue on withough dishonoring or forgetting Pogo. Sadly, it just takes time.